Friday, November 7, 2008

You Want Your Girlfriend Back?

Do you want your girlfriend back?

You still remember the day you first saw her. It was like a movie. She had a spotlight shining only on her and you awareness of anybody else disappeared. You were walking on air and believed you must be dreaming. She is the one.

When you recovered you somehow found the courage to walk up to her and say hi. It was like someone else was talking through you. First came the name and that led to exchanging mobiles and an agreement to meet again soon.

It was a fairy tale from there. She was perfect. Time rushed by when you were with her and the clock didn't seem to move when you were apart. It seemed like fate had brought you together. So happy together and getting better everyday.

You want your girlfriend back?

Then one day it happened, you started noticing faults. Small faults at first, the way she laughed, how she kept putting her hair behind her ear, continuously. Oh and that friend of hers she insisted on having around all the time, soooooooooooooo annoying. It seemed she was always late and never picked up the phone when you needed to talk.

As a couple you had always compromised on where you went. But tonight you wanted to go out with the guys and she wanted to see that new romantic comedy chick flick. The voice in your head was saying, "You deserve a night out with the guys. Watch the game together, and down a few beers after. The movie will still be playing later." So you did it. You chose the guys.

You want your girlfriend back?

You left her in tears but sure it would pass. Why didn't she answer your calls the next morning? After work you dropped by her apartment. Her girls were there and all were giving you the evil eye. Those terrible words, "We need to talk". The talk was short, "It's over". Nothing you could say changed her mind.

At first, shock, then relieve, then joy, hey you are single again. You can go where you want, when you want and with whom you want. Who needs a girlfriend, right? It is good for a time. Things are working out well. No more girly movies, come and go as you please. No more trips to the mall following her around while she is shopping. Nights out with the boys enjoying life.

Then it began again, you met the boys and they all had dates. You felt out of place and they spent most of the time talking with their girlfriends and to top it off went home early. Wow. The latest action movie was showing in town, you called around but everyone was busy. You decide to go alone. A great scene showed, out of habit you turned to make a comment, but nobody there. Looking around the theater you notice mostly couples and groups who were smiling and whispering at all the right moments.

Something great happened at work today and you just had to tell someone but all you could find was the dog and he acted totally disinterested. You found yourself in one of those moods and knew it is not something you share with your male friends but you lost her so again nobody to confide in. What to do?

You want your girlfriend back?

Maybe you were being too critical and focusing too much on her faults. Remembering what it was about her that attracted you in the first place was enormous compared to those minor faults you allowed to come between you and true love. Break up was a mistake, what to do now?

There are remedies if you are sincere about making up. You can start by watching the video below. That will provide you with food for thought. Watch it now.



As you watched the video and renewed hope for reconciliation warm in your chest you are asking how you can be a couple again. Only if you are committed, go read some more to find out how to get your girlfriend back